jmrnnj
01-26-2008, 02:02 AM
Hi there,
I had an issue at work. The short story is that I was not getting along with a female co-worker (I am male). From the day I started, I was warned not to mess with her. Rumors were that she and my boss were more than co-workers. I verbally discussed her (rude/nasty/aggressive/taunting/name-calling) behavior to my boss 9 times, and she rarely ever changed her ways. I told my boss that if I have another problem with her, I was going to write her up and send it to corporate. The next time I had a problem with her, I wrote her up. The next day, she was yelling and screaming at me FOR writing her up. I wrote her up again. The next day, I was called by my boss and told not to report to work because I was suspended for being late (in April, this incident occurred Oct. 1-3). He said that he was done with me and that I should take any issues that I had, up with his boss. His boss refused to listen to a word I said, wrote blatant lies on my suspension sheet, and greatly exaggerated my tardiness. I attached a letter stating my side of things and stapled it to the suspension notice. I took it up with her boss, and was reinstated a month later. My problem is that there were co-workers who were late a LOT more than I ever was, some were even "no-call, no-shows" several times in one week, etc. and they didn't get written up, but I get suspended for a month and moved to another project. I feel that I was targeted because I was a threat to my boss's relationship, job, as well as his marriage.
I feel the least they could do is repay me the month's wages that I missed, but I am afraid that if I call corporate to discuss this, I may get fired, or that it may be misconstrued as blackmail or something. I also find it highly suspicious the day that I write her up a second time, I am told not to come back to work. I am very easy to get along with, but she was such a problem. Please, is there anyone that can help? I feel I deserve more than missed wages for being raked over the coals. I was too embarassed to eventell my family because it sounds like I'm making this up, but I'm not. I also think the "Indefinite Suspension" as they called it was a ploy to try to get me to quit so that I wouldn't have a case in the future. This whole incident was just harassment and intimidation and lies and embarrassment.
Another interesting note is that when I was finally taken back, my boss' boss boss told me that after reviewing my letter, he decided that even though I was moved to a project in a lower pay grade, he would honor my current wage, which is unheard of here.
Also fYI, we are talking about a pretty decent sized, national company.
I had an issue at work. The short story is that I was not getting along with a female co-worker (I am male). From the day I started, I was warned not to mess with her. Rumors were that she and my boss were more than co-workers. I verbally discussed her (rude/nasty/aggressive/taunting/name-calling) behavior to my boss 9 times, and she rarely ever changed her ways. I told my boss that if I have another problem with her, I was going to write her up and send it to corporate. The next time I had a problem with her, I wrote her up. The next day, she was yelling and screaming at me FOR writing her up. I wrote her up again. The next day, I was called by my boss and told not to report to work because I was suspended for being late (in April, this incident occurred Oct. 1-3). He said that he was done with me and that I should take any issues that I had, up with his boss. His boss refused to listen to a word I said, wrote blatant lies on my suspension sheet, and greatly exaggerated my tardiness. I attached a letter stating my side of things and stapled it to the suspension notice. I took it up with her boss, and was reinstated a month later. My problem is that there were co-workers who were late a LOT more than I ever was, some were even "no-call, no-shows" several times in one week, etc. and they didn't get written up, but I get suspended for a month and moved to another project. I feel that I was targeted because I was a threat to my boss's relationship, job, as well as his marriage.
I feel the least they could do is repay me the month's wages that I missed, but I am afraid that if I call corporate to discuss this, I may get fired, or that it may be misconstrued as blackmail or something. I also find it highly suspicious the day that I write her up a second time, I am told not to come back to work. I am very easy to get along with, but she was such a problem. Please, is there anyone that can help? I feel I deserve more than missed wages for being raked over the coals. I was too embarassed to eventell my family because it sounds like I'm making this up, but I'm not. I also think the "Indefinite Suspension" as they called it was a ploy to try to get me to quit so that I wouldn't have a case in the future. This whole incident was just harassment and intimidation and lies and embarrassment.
Another interesting note is that when I was finally taken back, my boss' boss boss told me that after reviewing my letter, he decided that even though I was moved to a project in a lower pay grade, he would honor my current wage, which is unheard of here.
Also fYI, we are talking about a pretty decent sized, national company.