jandk924
06-24-2007, 09:43 AM
I have a question and don't know where to ask, thought someone on here might be able to help.
Here's the situation: I was married in August of 2001, our daughter was born a month later. My husband had another daughter from a previous relationship and so did I. A few months after our marraige I found out he was cheating with a few different women. I filed for divorce and had proof of my grounds. The 3 daughters had become very close, it was killing me to separate them. I cancelled the divorce and tried to save our family. He just wouldn't stop seeing other women and a year later we had separated competely. The girls were very upset. A few months later the divorce was final.
Three months after that my ex was expecting another child, a boy, and was getting married again to I'll say Nancy. A year into that marraige he's expecting another child. Now his wife is 9 months pregnant with their second child and they are about to divorce. He won't stop cheating. Nancy is still currently living with him at his parents house waiting for the ok from the courts to take the year and a half old boy and unborn to her family's home state far from here. These girls now lose a brother and another sister to be.
At the same time Nancy is sitting at the home and my ex is taking my 5 year old daughter and his 10 year old daughter from the first relationship on outings with his new girlfriend, say Wanda, and showing affection in front of his daughters. I have told him to give the girls time to get through the second family of theirs that he has destroyed, I do not want my daughter around Wanda yet.
I am not a bitter ex wife, I am very happily married now. I just don't want my daughter or my ex stepdaughter to grow up thinking it's ok for a man to walk all over her like daddy has done to their mothers and to Nancy. That is not a stable environment for them. I have confronted my ex with this but that did nothing, he feels he is doing no wrong. Isn't this some kind of emotional abuse? Is there anything I can do??? I need some advice before my ex destroys the confidence and sense of security of these kids.
Thanks to anyone who can help!
Here's the situation: I was married in August of 2001, our daughter was born a month later. My husband had another daughter from a previous relationship and so did I. A few months after our marraige I found out he was cheating with a few different women. I filed for divorce and had proof of my grounds. The 3 daughters had become very close, it was killing me to separate them. I cancelled the divorce and tried to save our family. He just wouldn't stop seeing other women and a year later we had separated competely. The girls were very upset. A few months later the divorce was final.
Three months after that my ex was expecting another child, a boy, and was getting married again to I'll say Nancy. A year into that marraige he's expecting another child. Now his wife is 9 months pregnant with their second child and they are about to divorce. He won't stop cheating. Nancy is still currently living with him at his parents house waiting for the ok from the courts to take the year and a half old boy and unborn to her family's home state far from here. These girls now lose a brother and another sister to be.
At the same time Nancy is sitting at the home and my ex is taking my 5 year old daughter and his 10 year old daughter from the first relationship on outings with his new girlfriend, say Wanda, and showing affection in front of his daughters. I have told him to give the girls time to get through the second family of theirs that he has destroyed, I do not want my daughter around Wanda yet.
I am not a bitter ex wife, I am very happily married now. I just don't want my daughter or my ex stepdaughter to grow up thinking it's ok for a man to walk all over her like daddy has done to their mothers and to Nancy. That is not a stable environment for them. I have confronted my ex with this but that did nothing, he feels he is doing no wrong. Isn't this some kind of emotional abuse? Is there anything I can do??? I need some advice before my ex destroys the confidence and sense of security of these kids.
Thanks to anyone who can help!